Not all tension is bad. In fact, leaning in to healthy tension can help us grow, improve, and make a bigger impact on our world.
What is toxicity and how does it effect our lives? Are there really "toxic people," or are there people who live in toxic situations and have toxic lives? Most importantly, how can we leave toxicity behind to improve our own outlook and experience? This video offers some perspective on those questions and on the idea of toxicity in our lives.
It's taken me a long time to write this post. I actually started it almost two weeks ago; but, for various reasons, not the least of which has been my own up-and-down battle with anxiety and stress, it's taken until today to finish. Better late than never, I suppose... It's been quite a while since … Continue reading The Myth of “Safety”
I've never been overly concerned about my age, or aging in general. It's true. A lot of people have something of a rude awakening when they turn 30. Not me. I was fine with it--it was just another year in my life. The same was true at 40. So, for me anyway, age and aging … Continue reading How to Have a Midlife Crisis in 10 Easy Steps
Yeah....sorry about the melodramatic title, but if you've been reading my blog long enough then you know I have a penchant for drama. *shrug* It's who I am. I apologized for it for years. I'm not going to apologize anymore. I'm struggling... It's been a while since I've posted anything. There are a lot of … Continue reading Struggling, Discouraged, & Generally Feeling Like Something of a Nobody
For the first time in almost 10 years writing this blog, I've had a reader request that I address a particular topic! So, of course, I am very happy to oblige, especially since this particular topic is one that is very important to me as both an educator and a student--TEST ANXIETY!! I suppose that … Continue reading Pencils Down, Your Time Is Up: 5 (+1) Strategies to Overcome Test Anxiety (A Reader Request)
Most people who suffer from anxiety and/or panic attacks (panic disorder) are the typical, tightly wound, Type a personality. Actually, all personality types have some level of tendency toward anxiety and stress about some thing according to Tanya J. Peterson, author of The Mindfulness Workbook For Anxiety. But, Type A's are highly susceptible to the stressors … Continue reading Self-Care Isn’t Selfish: Finding the Time and Tenacity to Get Well
Last week I wrote about 5 Negative Statements You Should Stop Saying Right Now. So, I wanted to follow that post up this week with 5 Positive Statements You Should Absolutely Say Every Day. When I was in high school, there was a skit on Saturday Night Live called "Daily Affirmations with Stewart Smalley." Stewart Smalley … Continue reading The Things We Say to Ourselves, part 2: 5 Positive Statements You Should ABSOLUTELY Say Every Day
Sometimes it's easy for those of us who suffer from anxiety and panic attacks to blame everything on anxiety. It's easy for our friends, loved ones, and even our doctors, too. But, I want to let you in on a little secret. Are you ready? It's not always anxiety. It's true. Not every emotion and … Continue reading It’s Not ALWAYS Anxiety: Recognizing, Owning, and Dealing With “Real” Emotions and Symptoms
People with anxiety and depression are notoriously bad about saying terrible things about ourselves. Most of the time, we say those things to ourselves. Oftentimes we excuse this negative talk by saying we're just being "realistic" or "trying not to get our hopes up" about something. But, the problem is that with every negative word we … Continue reading The Things We Say To Ourselves: 5 Negative Statements You Should Stop Saying Right Now