How to Have a Midlife Crisis in 10 Easy Steps

I've never been overly concerned about my age, or aging in general. It's true. A lot of people have something of a rude awakening when they turn 30. Not me. I was fine with it--it was just another year in my life. The same was true at 40. So, for me anyway, age and aging … Continue reading How to Have a Midlife Crisis in 10 Easy Steps

Not Dying Was Easy. Surviving Was the Hard Part – 16 Years Ago Today

16 years ago today my life changed forever. What follows is that story... Not Dying Was Easy—Surviving Was the Hard Part I wonder sometimes what might have been if I'd taken my normal route home; if I'd swerved faster; if I'd not been driving on the spare; but, I didn't, I couldn't, and I was, … Continue reading Not Dying Was Easy. Surviving Was the Hard Part – 16 Years Ago Today

Anxiety–Destroyer of Lives, Part 8: Making Amends and Knowing When It’s Time to Stop Apologizing

In traditional 12 Step recovery programs, two of the steps are dedicated to righting the wrongs that have been done--or at least acknowledging them, apologizing for them, and, if possible, making some sort of reparation (not necessarily monetarily) for them. Step Eight: Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to … Continue reading Anxiety–Destroyer of Lives, Part 8: Making Amends and Knowing When It’s Time to Stop Apologizing

Anxiety–Destroyer of Lives, Part 7: Sometimes We Fail

Sometimes, we fail. When I started this series over a year ago, I made a commitment to total transparency. Share everything (that is appropriate to share), hide nothing. Because only when we are totally honest with ourselves, with the people who love and care for us, and with the people who are helping us, can … Continue reading Anxiety–Destroyer of Lives, Part 7: Sometimes We Fail

My Hometown Series #4 – Fireflies

Last night I was driving along County Line Road between Grand Saline and Fruitvale. As I drove through the low-lying area at the bottom of “thrill hill,” under the canopy of trees whose branches extend across the entire span of the old oil top road, and mingle with their cousins on the opposite side, and … Continue reading My Hometown Series #4 – Fireflies

Getting All Third-Persony About It

Sorry for the delay in posts the last week or so. I've been a little busy trying to start my life all over again, 'n' stuff. (A quick note to new readers: anytime you see words underlined or in a different color, you can click on them to read something related to the current post. Okay, … Continue reading Getting All Third-Persony About It

Well Done, Good and Faithful Servant

He was one of the very first readers of this blog and became its most frequent commenter. I knew something was wrong when his comments stopped sometime before Christmas. Coach Ron McCown was a teacher. He was a mentor. He was an encourager. Most importantly, he was my friend. Coach passed peacefully from this life into the Church Triumphant this afternoon and is now worshipping Our Lord face to face.