People mean well--I know they do. But sometimes, when I'm in the middle of a panic attack or an anxious day, people say things that I wish they wouldn't say. Here are five of the most common ones. Remember, sometimes the best way to help is just to sit quietly and be there!
Anger and outrage can be helpful or harmful. It all depends on whether we manage them or let them manage us. In this video, I talk about some ways to overcome anger and outrage and to channel them to be effective and not affected.
Not all tension is bad. In fact, leaning in to healthy tension can help us grow, improve, and make a bigger impact on our world.
What is toxicity and how does it effect our lives? Are there really "toxic people," or are there people who live in toxic situations and have toxic lives? Most importantly, how can we leave toxicity behind to improve our own outlook and experience? This video offers some perspective on those questions and on the idea of toxicity in our lives.
It's taken me a long time to write this post. I actually started it almost two weeks ago; but, for various reasons, not the least of which has been my own up-and-down battle with anxiety and stress, it's taken until today to finish. Better late than never, I suppose... It's been quite a while since … Continue reading The Myth of “Safety”
I've never been overly concerned about my age, or aging in general. It's true. A lot of people have something of a rude awakening when they turn 30. Not me. I was fine with it--it was just another year in my life. The same was true at 40. So, for me anyway, age and aging … Continue reading How to Have a Midlife Crisis in 10 Easy Steps
16 years ago today my life changed forever. What follows is that story... Not Dying Was Easy—Surviving Was the Hard Part I wonder sometimes what might have been if I'd taken my normal route home; if I'd swerved faster; if I'd not been driving on the spare; but, I didn't, I couldn't, and I was, … Continue reading Not Dying Was Easy. Surviving Was the Hard Part – 16 Years Ago Today
Yeah....sorry about the melodramatic title, but if you've been reading my blog long enough then you know I have a penchant for drama. *shrug* It's who I am. I apologized for it for years. I'm not going to apologize anymore. I'm struggling... It's been a while since I've posted anything. There are a lot of … Continue reading Struggling, Discouraged, & Generally Feeling Like Something of a Nobody
For the first time in almost 10 years writing this blog, I've had a reader request that I address a particular topic! So, of course, I am very happy to oblige, especially since this particular topic is one that is very important to me as both an educator and a student--TEST ANXIETY!! I suppose that … Continue reading Pencils Down, Your Time Is Up: 5 (+1) Strategies to Overcome Test Anxiety (A Reader Request)