Anger and outrage can be helpful or harmful. It all depends on whether we manage them or let them manage us. In this video, I talk about some ways to overcome anger and outrage and to channel them to be effective and not affected.
Not all tension is bad. In fact, leaning in to healthy tension can help us grow, improve, and make a bigger impact on our world.
What is toxicity and how does it effect our lives? Are there really "toxic people," or are there people who live in toxic situations and have toxic lives? Most importantly, how can we leave toxicity behind to improve our own outlook and experience? This video offers some perspective on those questions and on the idea of toxicity in our lives.
It's taken me a long time to write this post. I actually started it almost two weeks ago; but, for various reasons, not the least of which has been my own up-and-down battle with anxiety and stress, it's taken until today to finish. Better late than never, I suppose... It's been quite a while since … Continue reading The Myth of “Safety”
16 years ago today my life changed forever. What follows is that story... Not Dying Was Easy—Surviving Was the Hard Part I wonder sometimes what might have been if I'd taken my normal route home; if I'd swerved faster; if I'd not been driving on the spare; but, I didn't, I couldn't, and I was, … Continue reading Not Dying Was Easy. Surviving Was the Hard Part – 16 Years Ago Today
Most people who suffer from anxiety and/or panic attacks (panic disorder) are the typical, tightly wound, Type a personality. Actually, all personality types have some level of tendency toward anxiety and stress about some thing according to Tanya J. Peterson, author of The Mindfulness Workbook For Anxiety. But, Type A's are highly susceptible to the stressors … Continue reading Self-Care Isn’t Selfish: Finding the Time and Tenacity to Get Well
Last week I wrote about 5 Negative Statements You Should Stop Saying Right Now. So, I wanted to follow that post up this week with 5 Positive Statements You Should Absolutely Say Every Day. When I was in high school, there was a skit on Saturday Night Live called "Daily Affirmations with Stewart Smalley." Stewart Smalley … Continue reading The Things We Say to Ourselves, part 2: 5 Positive Statements You Should ABSOLUTELY Say Every Day
Ok....I confess it. I get angry pretty easily. It doesn't take very much at all for inconvenience to slide into annoyance; for annoyance to turn into irritation; and for irritation to morph into Incredible Hulk like anger! Even the smallest things can turn me from a relatively calm person, to a complete a**hole. You know that's common … Continue reading Removing the Anger Quotient: Being less affected and more effective
Generalized Anxiety Disorder, panic attacks, and depression can be a real mine field for people who suffer with them. Often times, the very things we want to do and feel an irresistible urge to do are the very worst things to do. That's what is so insidious about these illnesses--they become a vicious cycle of self-defeating behaviors … Continue reading 3 Things People With Anxiety Do That People With Anxiety Should Never Do
It's that time again... Back to School! The first day of school is just around the corner (already here in some places), and for students, parents, and teachers alike, knowing that first day of school is coming can produce a lot anxiety and sometimes enough stress to make you sick! But it doesn't have to be that … Continue reading 5 (+1) Tips To Reduce Anxiety on the First Day of School (with COVID-era upate)